Three years ago, Mom retired and moved to Florida—lightning capital of the U.S. She wasn’t afraid of storms, and I guess she figured two billion alligators couldn’t be wrong.
To further elevate my concerns, she refuses to evacuate for hurricanes.
“We’ll be okay,” Mom recently assured me as a major hurricane tracked her direction. “The eye is supposed to make landfall seventy miles from here.” The way she said this, you’d have thought we were discussing the probability of the sun’s collision with Earth.
“Why won’t you come visit me and wait this thing out?” I pleaded, knowing fully well that she’d refuse. She’d never let me off that easy.
“My back hurts,” she said. “I don’t want to ride that far in a car.”
Boarding a plane was out of he question. I might just as well ask her to skateboard cross-country.
When we next spoke, Mom laughed at the urgency in my voice. (It was the same sinister laugh that had escaped her when she’d told me how, when I was a child, I’d nearly strangled between two crib rails.) “We’ll be all right,” she insisted. “Stop worrying. We’ve got plywood over the windows.”
Now, you have to understand that my mother’s idea of disaster preparedness is having a camp stove, some honey buns, instant coffee, and one of those battery-operated mister fans (no larger than a deodorant stick) on hand.
“What have you done to prepare for a power failure?” I asked.
“We’ve got a deck of cards and a cell phone,” she said, emphasizing the cards. Clearly, the loss of television programming was her most immediate concern. The cards were a substitute, I guess, for The Price is Right and All My Children.
“That’s nice, Mom. I imagine you can play a wicked game of Fifty-two Card Pick Up in one hundred and sixty mile-an-hour winds,” I wanted to tell her. But instead I asked, “Do you have a generator? Have you got water?”
“No. We don’t have a generator.”
“But it’s hot there.” I pressed on. “What’ll you do when the air conditioning goes out?”
“Oh, I guess we’ll open the windows,” she said, presumably to see if I was paying attention. Then she added, “After the wind stops, of course.”
The next night, the hurricane cut a swath through Florida, its eye passing less than one-hundred miles from Mom’s house. We spoke by phone as it came ashore, and then remained online with each other for some time thereafter.
At 2:00 a.m., when the winds were approaching 60 mph, Mom said, “I can hear noises and banging outside, but I can’t see anything because of the plywood.” My stomach knotted. I had the same sick feeling I get when watching those National Geographic programs about nature—the ones that show some predator sneaking up on an unsuspecting bunny.
An hour later, the wind speeds now gusting to 90 mph, Mom wrote in an e-mail that (surprise!) she was eating a honey bun. Then the hurricane eye made landfall and delivered a temporary reprieve, so I went to bed and slept for a couple hours. But first I asked God to protect Mom from the worst—her apparent lack of valid reasoning.
I was again awake by 5:45 a.m. and watching the Weather Channel. Scenes of collapsed bridges and flooded roadways dominated the air waves. I tried to call Mom, but all the phone lines in her area were jammed. Eventually, she contact me by cell phone. As she relayed the damage, her phone battery began to die.
“Quick, Mom, plug in the charger,” I blurted.
“I can’t,” she said. “There’s no power in the house.”
“Plug it into your car charger, then.”
“I would, but I don’t have one.”
“What brand is it? What model? What does it look like?” I fired back.
Faintly, I heard Mom say, “…Nokia…,” then nothing.
The rest of that day I researched cell phone models and chargers. I made calls, visited stores, and at last found a “universal” charger that operates from an automobile cigarette lighter. Hurrying against the clock, I carried a box containing the charger, an assortment of batteries, and a few canned goods to a local shipper.
When Mom received her package the next morning, she immediately called to thank me. “Are you talking to me from the car?” I asked, inflated with self—pride. Surely, I reasoned, I’d passed Mom’s latest test. Maybe I’d proven, once and for all, the extent of my love.
“No, I’m in the house,” she said matter-of-factly. “I got the power back this morning.”
Who was she kidding? We both knew the truth. Mothers don’t ever lose their power.
This story was excerpted from the book, Driving on the Wrong Side of the Road. Hurricanes are no laughing matter. But sometimes the way we deal with them is humorous.